Flirtology is a science-based method of teaching flirting. Using scientific research, and proven flirting techniques, I can help anyone to become a Fearless Flirter.
I have helped thousands of others, and I can help you too. Are you ready to take a major fork in the road, which will positively affect the rest of your life? Welcome to Flirtology!
I have a confession to make. I was just in Starbucks. (I can’t help it. I like their iced-coffees). The guy in front of me was super fit! When he asked for a chocolate swirl muffin, I took it as an opportunity to speak to him, and said, ‘You are lucky that you can get away with eating those things. They look delicious.’ He flashed me a gorgeous smile and said, ‘Well, it is Friday after all. I thought I’d treat myself.’ We continued speaking until we received our coffees, and then wished each other a good weekend. Let me ask you a question, ‘Why aren’t you doing this?’ You are missing opportunities, and very easy ones, at that.
Not being able to flirt affects people in a number of situations, missed opportunities and being relegated to the ‘friend zone’ are the most common. Do you have male friends, but you are always thought of as ‘one of the guys’. (Flirtology men, I am sure you can extrapolate from this).
‘The friend’ is a role that you are very comfortable with, and without awareness and a behavioural change, you will find yourself slipping into it, again and again. But that’s not what you want: you have enough of friends! The problem is that you can’t do what you’ve always done and expect a different result.
From now on, when you meet someone and, once again, you feel yourself taking on any of the following roles: the confidant, the advice giver, the listener, or even the teaser (you’re reverting back to when you were on in the schoolyard) STOP!
Not being able to flirt, affects you in a number of negative ways; missed opportunities and the ‘friend zone’ are two of the most common. Perhaps flirting is not something that comes naturally to you. To make matter worse, you have probably been led to believe that everyone is good at it except you! The good news is that flirting can be learned. Today I will share with you how to flirt with a stranger, so you won’t have any more missed opportunities. Next week, I will tell you the secret for staying out of the friend zone.
Let’s start your flirting frenzy with ‘The 5 Step Flirt’ method.
The next time you want to make a flirty impression whilst being introduced to someone, simply do the following five steps.
*Dave and *Susan are reaching the end of their 6-hour coaching package with me. And both have been amazed at the results. *Names have been changed.
When Susan first came to me, she was feeling quite down, frustrated. Following our sessions, she tells me she is in a completely different place. Recently, she was out with her sister, and started chatting to the guy next to her at the bar. (Which is now her normal behaviour). Her sister said to her: ‘Your flirt coach has turned you into a flirting monster…but in a good way.’ She has also noticed other positive changes in Susan. Before when Susan forced herself to be outgoing it was more unnatural, appeared exaggerated and made her uncomfortable. Now, her sister identified that Susan seemed happier and more outgoing, but in a calm way; her method of interacting with people was natural and came across as effortless. The icing on the cake: Susan tells me she has never been happier, and knows if she keeps doing what she is doing, she will definitely meet someone.
A few months ago Dave would never have imagined approaching a woman. He was shy and nervous about how they would react. He had no idea about the steps to do it. I have just had a session with Dave where he told me about his recent trip to the States.